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It's About The Interior, Not Exterior
AWOE Life Articles for Singles
Written By Jen G~
Yeah, thatís a racy title I know, but I am talking to my fellow
females and the few guys who are nosy enough to read this.
So often I come across girls and young women who are
constantly comparing themselves to female celebrities who
barely have a natural feature on them!
You know every girl wants to look like that.
What is that anyways?
Now I have nothing against any female celebrities, but itís the
same expression of sex, on a different bodies.
I found out a long time ago that if you compare bodies the only
difference between yours and theirs is God gave you the full
package for the man heís preparing for you.
You donít have to get lips like a fish, bounce like a ball, get
fluffed and stuffed or fake it like a plastic doll to get a guy
interested in you.
Guys arenít just attracted to parts, but the personality behind
the engine. If you were a car, say a Hummer (Iím so in love with
that truck), you could look as good as you want on the exterior.
Trust me it will cause him to come over and check you out, but
heís wants to get inside (your head) to pop that hood (see what
your thinking) and if it has all the state of the art equipment
(confidence and spark) he may just take it for a ride (date you!).
All goes well on the highway (that first date), he will lease it
(continue to date you) and say maybe a year or so down the road
he will buy it (committed relationship, courtship, engagement,
etc). So when things go wrong down the line, he will take it to the
repair shop (he knows your worth working out the trouble), and
he will make the investment to fix anything that comes up!
Itís About the Interior, Not the Exterior
Real relationships arenít built on exterior, but the interior.
If you look like plastic heís going to treat you like it.
You can look as beautiful as anyone, but if thereís no
substance on the inside heís not going to want you for long.
I think the biggest problem Iíve come across is people diving
into relationships before building a solid friendship.
Ladies we are beautiful no matter what shape or size we are.
God made us in his own image, which I believe is perfect just
the way we are. Yes, look good, but donít sell yourself with your
flesh, present yourself with your inward wealth. Make sure every
guy knows that your priceless from the inside out.